lonely guys can grab any1? =.=”
sooner or later i think i might start hating guys already..really dun understand how guys think..their thinking is really..simple? or complicated? i really feel sien..until now beside my 1 and only ex-bf others who asked me 2 be their gf juz say it so casually..i’ve always heard a lot b4 my 1st bf. always wonder how it feels..heard many stories from my frens but wat i’ve seen is so different..they will receive some small gifts,which is quite sweet..doesnt haf 2 be expensive also. and some of the guys will like try very hard 2 win her heart. 4 me wat i’ve experienced is (not including me ex!) hmm..they juz ask "hey,can u be my gf?" and that’s it. hello..feeling dun juz come like that,need time 2 "pui yong" rite? after say no,then they will take it like ntg ever happened and some of them might even stop contacting u. worse is..guys who lie! i also not pretty,not rich,not famous..even i dun understand they want lie me wat. guys izit when lonely can juz simply grab a girl and ask them be his gf? i really cant tahan ppl lie 2 me! haihz…really scared already..rather be single..no need think so much. less 1 problem.
October 25th, 2006 at 8:18 pm
nice post !!
Very very agree !!
October 27th, 2006 at 6:36 am
single good!
October 28th, 2006 at 2:24 am
but i tot u prefer double coz u always order indomee double =P
November 26th, 2006 at 6:32 pm
Single is better alot dude……not until u think u wan to settle down with kids or something like tat.
Well Krazy, many guys are using the Kaedah “CUBA JAYA”, and not romantic at all isnt it haha. Anyway girls expectation has increase tremendously lately haha.
BTW, i didnt open my mouth and ask my wife “would u be my gf?” when i first court her. Well maybe my generation is different from urs. Back in the old days we still use “phone porridging” and go out for dating or yumcha like tat until one day the feelings came and bought her gift on valentines and i ask “would u be my valentine”…..and yeah the process comes about 1 year not in 1 day and ask “would u be my gf” thingy. Thats lame lolz.
U got nothing to lose wat if the guy is using Kaedah Cuba Jaya…..tell them nice try and try harder next time hahaha. “gantung harga”.
Hhmm, anyway relationship is part of an experience so chill out dude.
December 1st, 2006 at 7:53 pm
Yup… agree with Uncle C…
Relationships are a difficult subject.. u will need a phd to understand it.. and yet still be able to fail.
My dear KG.. u are still very young… so the blokes u meet are still not so matured or maybe not too serious about relationships.. the definition of a GF differs from one person to another… so you will need to analyze that before u can expect anything out of it. So someone that’s not serious, or a noob in relationship might approach u wrongly… but i guees being a girl u can sense that…
Whatever their resons are… sit down, calm yourself and have a good look first… then decide if they are worth it or not.
Rest assured… i am very sure that one fine day… a prince charming would come to you and sweep you off your feet… melting ur heart in the process…
huh… even then… u will still need to evaluate and analyze… hahahaha ;D
“Live Life to the Fullest… No Regrets..”
p.s. u still owe me an update on ur status.. and u know what status i m talking about…
December 1st, 2006 at 7:55 pm
And btw… Calvin’s method of courtship reflects on the seriousness of his intentions…
be friends first.. then see how the chemistry works… after a certain duration… see if u want to push it to the next level…
;D Calvin has pushed it over to the second last level…
hmmm… wondering when he will go for the “kids” level.. LOL..
February 12th, 2007 at 3:59 pm
u can check out my lastest post 4 my status now ^^ i prefer that 2..start as fren 1st,take things ez and c how it works..it’s much better than juz come over and ask “be my gf” =.=”